Hello again, everyone! It's once again time for me to wax poetic about something that's been bugging me lately: breaking up with a friend. It sucks. It's got the potential to be worse than romantic breakups. It's not (typically) a conclusion one comes to easily or quickly, but I think we all eventually come to… Continue reading Mourning Platonic Loss
Is It Me? Am I the Drama?
A wise philosopher once said, "It ain't nun to cut that bitch off." Snip, snip, h*e (if you know, you know). And one thing about me, I will cut someone out of my life with the quickness. Unfollow, mute, block, the whole nine yards. Your instagram, twitter, phone number, Facebook, even ya mama's Facebook if… Continue reading Is It Me? Am I the Drama?
Growth vs. Ease: Making the Choice
“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” Abraham Maslow I had a thought at work last week that stopped me in my tracks: staying at my job would be easy. This was an incredibly unsettling realization… Continue reading Growth vs. Ease: Making the Choice
calm the f*ck down.
Just take a pause. And breathe. My 2019 was a year full of doubt. Doubt in my abilities to succeed in grad school, doubt in whether or not I even wanted the career I've been working so hard for, for the past... I don't even want to think about how long I've been working for… Continue reading calm the f*ck down.